Yesterday WSJ had a front page story with the headline "For High Schoolers, Summer is Time to Polish Resumes." It told of rising sophomores going to African to work with AIDS victim then to Yale to present a "plan of action", or to Georgetown for a five-week course on medical careers and SAT prep course combined. Here's the meat:
Getting into America's elite colleges has never been tougher, and now, in addition to grades and test scores, essays, recommendations and class rank, there's this for teens and their parents to worry about: summer.
"Summers are important, big time," says Lloyd Peterson, vice president of College Coach LLC, which charges $3,499 for its college-counseling services. "The more prestigious the school, the more important the summers are."
Admissions officers dispute that. They say that how a youngster spends summers won't make or break a college application. "It doesn't matter as much as what they're doing in the school year," says Richard Nesbitt, admissions director at Williams College in Williamstown, Mass.
But as a record number of high schoolers heads for college, summer is taking on huge importance among super-achieving teens and their parents -- and a whole industry is sprouting to serve them.
Lots of kids applying to the same universities is an ego boost (and tuition boost) for those universities. It's also obviously a money-maker for some adults. And it can be a source of pride and competition for high school faculties and guidance counselors. But, is it of value to the students?
I suspect not. Kids don't know they want to go to one of these schools -- they don't have a clue about college as high school freshmen (or seniors), much less which college. Even the best "college search" is usually ends in a hopeful guess. And, for the most part, college is what you make of it.
I have a son at Emory. Getting into an "elite" university wasn't his goal nor ours, it just happened. Good fit for a lot of reasons. And it's been a great experience. But he didn't focus his high school experience on that goal (ask his teachers!), and he didn't think he had "made it" when he got in. I think it is a mistake to push kids on external goals that ultimately cannot deliver on the hopes put on them. Better to push them to engage, to work at what they are doing, to read and discuss and think.
Now, having said that, I'll admit that Tyler wasn't casual about his passions, and neither were we. He wanted to play baseball, and he worked at it and we made it possible for him to pursue it at the highest level he could in high school. And, that was part, I suspect, of what made him attractive to Emory. But it is what he learned from that effort, including the ability to persist and overcome, that will serve him well at Emory and beyond. Had he been doing it just to get into an "elite," I doubt it would have had the same value.
So, focus on the kid, not the college. It will work better in both the short and the long runs.
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